Archive for February, 2011

Panic Attacks: Stop them before they stop you

Tuesday, February 15th, 2011

           Panic attacks look different in different people. Some may experience them as asthma attacks, others as heart attacks, and in children sometimes as temper tantrums. If you suffer from panic attacks or know someone who does, read below for helpful tips on what to do to stop them.

First, know what causes a panic attack. Everyone handles stress differently and has different triggers, know what triggers anxiety and panic in you. Common triggers include entering an unfamiliar situations or a feeling of being out of control in a situation. Most people in the midst of a panic attack won’t know why it’s happening. Thinking about environmental triggers and how you respond when you’re calm will help you and others handle further attacks.

Know the symptoms of a panic attack. Many people who experience panic attacks attribute them to medical reasons resulting in time and money spent at doctors’ offices. By knowing the signs of panic you will be prepared beforehand and know what is happening. Common symptoms of a panic attack include:

Rapid heart rate

Sense of impending doom

Sweating

Trembling

Chills and/or hot flashes

Nausea

Dizziness

Headache

Chest Pain

Hyperventilation

Faintness

Get plenty of sleep. Sleep deprivation robs your body of needed the chemicals your brain needs to self-regulate. Without proper sleep, you will be more prone to panic attacks. Likewise, maintain a healthy diet. Diets rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains will help your body utilize and maintain proper energy sources.

Maintain the right environment. If you are hot, cool off. If you are cold, put on a sweater. It’s a good idea to always have a light sweater with you to take on and off as your body needs it. One of the best things you can do for someone in the middle of a panic attack is to keep them warm and lessen the sights and sounds around them. Remove them from the situation, without embarrassing them. Look for small contained spaces, which feel safe to the individual. It’s a good idea to think and talk about these beforehand. Is the car a safe place for the individual in the midst of a panic attack? Is their bedroom a safe place?

Panic and anxiety disorders can be significant functionally disabling clinical problems or moderately challenge our sense of well being.

 If you or a family member is suffering from panic attacks give the experts at Holtz Psychological Services a call. We are here to Help!

Energy Drinks: Side Effects & Learning Problems….

Tuesday, February 15th, 2011

Recent studies have consistently demonstrated that the consumption of energy drinks by children and adolescents are not only un healthy but dangerous with additional risks for those young people who take medications of have mental health conditions such as ADHD.  A growing number of countries have banned them all together with another group putting in place age restrictions for their sale and consumption.  Those with ADHD, cardiac problems, or other mental health issues can be adversly afffected by ingesting these highly caffeinated beverages.  The average single serving of an energy drink contains over 100 mg of caffeine (per 8 oz. kids often consume upwards of 20 0z.) and over 12 teaspoons of sugar!  Sugar and caffeine in this high a dose impedes attention, concentration, and our ability to learn…. In the words of Crosby, Stills, and Nash… “parents teach your children well!”

Mother-Daughter Relationships: Making It Work

Tuesday, February 8th, 2011

            Mother-Daughter relationships are important and unique in a woman’s life. Most women will describe their relationship with their mother are having typical ups and downs. Have you ever wondered how to take your relationship to the next level, from ordinary to extraordinary? Read below for some helpful tips on improving the mother-daughter relationship.

Make a conscious choice to improve your relationship with your mother. This entails making the relationship more important than being right in an argument. Be willing to let go of the past and any reasons why an extraordinary relationship won’t work.

            Write down what you want in the relationship. Do you want to be best friends with your mom? Increase laughter? Have a stronger bond? By writing out a definition of what you want you will be clear on your goals.

            Don’t let others, including your mother; stop you from creating an extraordinary relationship. Even if your mother isn’t on board initially with your efforts, try not to get discouraged. With time and consistency, she will see you are committed to improving your relationship. Furthermore, don’t let others in your family influence you as they may not be open to your efforts at a better relationship with your mother. Don’t let yourself become victim to old family patterns (arguing, not speaking to each other, etc).

            Be willing to accept your part in the past. Accept responsibility for any pain you caused your mother in the past and apologize. Be willing to do this face to face. This will allow both of you to talk openly about your roles in past arguments. Move on from the past after this conversation.

            Stay present in the moment and be honest. This will help you stay neutral to experiences that would have caused you to become upset in the past. Remember, that everyone is doing the best they can with what they have learned in life so far. Keep this in mind as you begin to build a better relationship with your mom.

            Spend quality time with your mother. Do things together just the two of you. Go out to eat, go shopping or to the movies, cook together. Engage in activities your mother enjoys. This will further the bond you share.

            While this isn’t an easy process, you can achieve it. Remember, to show unconditional love, support, and commitment. If you or a family member is struggling to improve their relationship with their mother or daughter give the experts at Holtz Psychological Services a call. We are here to help!